i finally figured it out. switched the smaller battery that was in it with my oversized 535is battery and it started up right when i turned the key. so now my donar engine is running and sounds real good. im not sure if i wanna just put this engine in or put it on a stand and turn it into a monster during the next year.
i was stumped every relay, sensor, fuel pump, coil and wired i check all seemed good and reead 12-14 volts. so i found in archives a long long long time ago some dude changed his baterry and all his problems tranny and engine disapeared. sweet